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Kwesi Kyei Darkwah |
Dear
Mr. Kwesi Kyei Darkwah,
The
Nectar of Forgiveness
Contrition
is the bedfellow of forgiveness.
When
a man steps out and asks for mercy, flawed souls have to give it keener
consideration. I read your apology letter (dated 12th January 2015); and a
particular line struck me, and indeed still strikes me to the very core.
You
concluded: “Kindly pray for us.” Whereas this may be a cliché for some people,
I personally see encapsulated in this succinct statement—when contextualised
within your request for forgiveness—a real cry of the soul. And equally
fallible souls cannot turn deaf ears to the din of your soul which may have
experienced its own perceptible catharsis. You needed, and still need our
prayers; and much more, we all need each other's prayers.
When
your story broke, we debated a whole number of issues, I need not rehearse
any—you would have read some you agree with, or otherwise. In any case, as your
case virtually dies down, I see an opportunity for Ghanaians to give a sinner a
fair chance. Don't get too worked out by my calling you a sinner, because that
is what we all are. It was Solomon who made the point with unmissable clarity
when he observed: "For there is not a just man upon earth, that doeth
good, and sinneth not" (Ecclesiastes 7:20; cf. 1 Kings 8:46; Proverbs
20:9).
Dilating
upon the point above, we are all sinners of varying degrees, intensities and
immensities—without exceptions. Is there any person who does not sin? I admit
my own cacoethes. Peccavi!
I
am ever trying to live right, but every now and again, I slip. Realising my own
fallibility, I cherish and enjoy the sweet nectar of forgiveness when I deserve
nothing but stinging punishment. Right here, I understand Ezra's admission in
prayer, concerning the children of Israel: "And after all that is come
upon us for our evil deeds, and for our great trespass, seeing that thou our
God hast punished us less than our iniquities deserve, and hast given us such
deliverance as this" (Ezra 9:13).
Based
on the revealed contents on your case, there are still a fair number of
Ghanaians who will not accept that your case has been dropped. However,
considering what the prosecution later stated in the public domain, there are
indeed some who will never believe and agree you should have walked free. As to
whether or not this should have gone to a full trial is another matter. The
unanswered questions will remain for those interested in further debating the
issues. Perhaps our legal friends who occupy themselves with dreary and musty
parchments, bending over and poring over dry-as-dust sentences for a living
will take up the issue in their chambers.
Nonetheless,
for a society that surely has many “big men” enjoying what they should not,
your case could still set a wrong precedence, now that it has been dismissed.
In
any case, we as a people must realise that common sense is not the same as law.
And this thorny point many people continue to grapple and wrestle with. And if
the State has decided the best option is to free you, then so be it!
Nevertheless,
in a case like yours, there are very few winners, if any. However, what you
have been through could turn out to be a splendid and superb opportunity for
you. This setback could surely be your setup for something greater and
something lying beyond the fixed circumference of your current influence. And
it is such truth that has called me away from more important issues to my desk.
Like a celestial fire in my soul, I feel I must write to you, and that is
exactly what I have done.
I
have seen your lovely pictures at your Thanksgiving ceremony. What caught my
eye though was a reported speech attributed to you. One website quotes you as
saying: “Whatever has happened in my life is in the past. I look forward to the
future with hope.” And then there is the line that makes my point for me: “Not
too long ago, I was a suspect, now I am a prospect.”
Yes,
you are a prospect and hence my challenge below.
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Kwesi Kyei Darkwah |
Consider
Campaigning For Abused Victims
Perhaps
your finest hour has presented itself. Ghanaians truly need someone to front a
massive campaign for the trodden down in society. And you could very well be
the ideal candidate. In fact, you could be a promoter of self-restraint as you
call upon your experience to drive the message of action to curb violence
against abused victims.
In
truth, there are many people who are suffering in our society, and they do not
have anyone speaking out for them. With your new platform, you could drive the
issue of such victims into the national consciousness. Bringing your passionate
and poignant pathos to bear on such noteworthy assignment, you will contribute
significantly to lifting the persistent mist of apathy towards abused victims
in our society.
Now
there are those who will think this suggestion is foolhardy; but equally and
utterly temerarious would be their conclusion.
Indeed,
your letter of compunction referenced above showed someone who cares for the
lady in question. You could extend this care to countless others who are
suffering in silence.
Initially,
starting out on such a fresh path would almost be cognate to Saul (later to
become Paul) going out to preach the gospel. However, as we all know, he held
his ground, and today, he has left his lasting fingerprints upon the church,
even after many centuries.
If
you accept my fragrant challenge, it may very well be that this would gradually
lead to you changing the minds of many who at present have decided you do not
deserve forgiveness. Indeed, human nature is fickle, and those who may accuse
you today could well be the same people praising you tomorrow.
In
any case, have some vital rest and think long and hard about my sound
suggestion. It would perhaps herald a new chapter in your life for which many
will always remember you as a fearless campaigner for abused victims in
society.
Please
kindly weigh up my vital offer, and arrive at the best judgement in your
considered opinion.
Regards,
Angelina.
Angelina K. Morrison is interested in national development, true religion, and self-improvement. She enjoys thinking, and writes stories only when the muse grips her. Her first short story, Gravellatina is a breathtaking five-part series available now at Amazon. You can email her at angelinakm75@gmail.com, or find her at www.angelinakmorrison.blogspot.com or Facebook page.
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